1 Thessalonians – Love: Walking in a way that Pleases God


COMMUNITY GUIDE

The Community Guide below is based on Sunday’s teaching for our new series: 1 Thessalonians. As your whole Community gathers (online or in-person), use the Community Guide below to give shape to your time together.

Begin by Practicing the Lord’s Supper Together (5 minutes)

Begin your time by partaking of the bread and the cup together. Have each person bring their own Communion elements or provide elements for the group. To facilitate your time, you can either ask a member of your Community to come ready with a short prayer, scripture reading or read the passage we’ve provided below. After reading (aloud), spend a few moments in silence, take the elements and then close in prayer:

For I received from the Lord what I also passed on to you: The Lord Jesus, on the night he was betrayed, took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and said, “This is my body, which is for you; do this in remembrance of me.” In the same way, after supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood; do this, whenever you drink it, in remembrance of me.” For whenever you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until he comes. – 1 Corinthians 11:23–26

CHECK-IN (10 MINUTES)

As we focus on this series, we want to continue to create space for checking in on each other but doing so in a shorter amount of time. Take a few minutes to do a whole person check-in (emotional, spiritual, physical) with your Community, creating space for each person to answer the question below:

  • What is one way we can pray for you? What is one we can pray for one of your neighbors?

If the need arises, spend a few minutes praying for one another, asking God to meet needs and help each person carry what feels heavy right now.

Read this overview:

“Love: Walking in a Way that Pleases God” | Todd Nighswonger, Elder & Lead Pastor

Synopsis: Last week, in 1 Thessalonians 4:1-8, Paul’s major emphasis was holiness, specifically regarding sexual brokenness. The main point was that as God’s holy people, we have been set apart and repurposed for God’s glory. This week, in verses 9-12, we learned how we live as God’s holy people and for God’s glory (or how we reflect God): we love. The main point was that we glorify God most by living out our created purpose of displaying God through loving our spiritual family. And this holy love, which “increases,” soon “abounds” (“spills out”) for our neighbors and enemies to see and experience.

QUESTIONS (20 Minutes)

  1.  In 1 Thessalonians 3:12 and 4:9, Paul talked about our identity as “God-taught ones,” and more specifically of our ability to love like God loves because we have his Spirit. How would you say your community is doing when it comes to loving one another in an “increasing” and “abounding” way? Make sure to discuss ways in which you see strengths to be celebrated and weaknesses to be addressed. Also, remember that this isn’t simply an individual project, but a group one.

  2. The Thessalonians were to love “more and more” (v 10) by making their love for one another spill over in love for their neighbors and enemies. And the way they loved them was by being a testimony of how God’s people are called to live or “walk properly” (v 12). Where do you see your love for one another as a community spilling into your relationships with neighbors and enemies? How is your community doing? Make sure to discuss ways in which you see strengths to be celebrated and weaknesses to be addressed.

Missionary Practice For The Week Ahead: BLESS (10 Minutes)

If you do at least one of these practices every day, you will not only become more like Jesus, but you will help others find Jesus too! In your time together as a community, ask the questions, “Who did you BLESS this week? This time of sharing will keep the Great Commission at the forefront of who we are called to be as followers of Jesus. It will also provide the opportunity to celebrate and encourage one another on the journey.

B.L.E.S.S.

  • (B)egin with Prayer:

    • Pray for the people in your life and the places that you’re in.

      • People: Who do you live, work and play with that is far from God? Pray that God would create spiritual curiosity in them, and then spend time with them.

      • Places:

        • Where does pain exist here?  Pray for healing.

        • Who makes the decisions here? Pray for integrity.

        • Who throws parties here? Pray for community.

        • Where are the pennies spent here? Pray for provision.

  • (L)isten:

    • Listen to and discover the needs of others and for the places where God is at work.

      • Before you can help others find Jesus, you need to listen to them first - their hopes, pains, challenges and dreams.  In your interactions with others today, take the posture of a learner.  Lay down assumptions and practice being present in conversations. 

  • (E)at:

    • Share meals, drink coffee, and spend time with people in your life that don’t yet know Jesus.

      • Who can you eat with (or have coffee with) that is far from God? A co-worker over lunch? A neighbor during the day? A friend or family member over the weekend?

      • Is there a place that you regularly visit (coffee shop, gym, etc.)? Ask God to grant you opportunities to eat with people.

  • (S)erve:

    • Who can you serve this week? Who do you know that has a practical need? Ask them how you can help.

      • Before jumping into serving, have you taken the time to pray for, listen to and eat with these people? Doing these things first helps you discover the way that you really need to serve them.

  • (S)tory:

    • Share the story of Jesus and what He is doing in your life with others.

      • Start by sharing how God has blessed you and made a difference in your life.

      • Share your story in such a way that demonstrates that Jesus is also at work in their life. 

      • Don’t feel like you have to tell your life story at once.  Think “bite-size” stories. 





Prayer (10 Minutes)

Spend a few minutes praying for God’s grace over each other, that we might become a people who make Jesus our Lord, and that there might be a sweeping renewal of the Holy Spirit in our city. Ask that God would stir up within us a desire to be with him in prayer and to serve him, one another, and our neighbor in love.

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